Sunday, January 11, 2009

home sweet home


welcome to the house of hayes. yes, we are buying a house. a few months ago, matt's friend, 'dave the realtor', started taking us to go see houses. we didn't think we would really find anything we really liked for awhile, but wanted to see what was out there. about a week before christmas, we saw this house and both fell in love with it. it was definitely the best one we had seen and one we could really see ourselves in. so we put in an offer and after some tough negotiations, we finally came to an agreement. lord willing, we will close on february 20th and move in right away!

the process-like i said, the negotiations were rough. the longer it took, the more our emotions were invested into it. but, matt and i were confident that if this wasn't the house for us, the Lord would make it clear. we were happy with the conclusion :) buying a house is overwhelming though! first off deciding if we should put in an offer, then how much to offer, and when our offer is accepted, buying furniture and such. but, i feel like through it all, it has brought matt and i closer. my love for him has grown tremendously these past few weeks. and now we are in the home stretch...ha, no pun intended. we had the inspection done this past wednesday (which took 4 hours...they usually take about 2 :) and that went very well. no big things to worry about. now that that's over, it is more of a reality that we will be moving in a little over a month. only a few little things could happen that would not make us get the house. wow mom.

the house-as matt says, 'it's pimped out.' when we first met with 'dave the realtor' he asked us a bunch of questions about the needs and wants for a house. he said he was just looking over that list recently and this house has most of those things on it, which is pretty amazing to find in a first house. basically, it's 4 bedroom 2.5 bath. but the work and fixtures they've put into it is what makes it. the kitchen might be the best part of the house. they just finished it this year, so it's brand new. it's got granite countertops, cabinets for days, nice new fridge, granite & travertine flooring, an island and more. i don't know what i'm going to do with all the space and what to put in all those cabinets. i'm sure it'll fill up faster than i think. just off the kitchen is more of an eat in dining room. it has a big living room and a smaller family room. an office on the main floor that matt is very excited about. and a laundry room. upstairs we have hardwood floors throughout. each of the three bedrooms are a good size. the second bath has nice double sinks. and then the master bedroom is quite special. they did wainscoting, which is a sort of paneling, on the walls, which looks beautiful. we have his and hers closets, with mine basically being a small room...i'm extra excited about that :) and they've done some nice touches with the master bath. oh, and all of the bathroom floors are heated. basically they did some stuff to the house, that even if you had the money to do, you probably wouldn't pay to have done. we are reaping the benefits of it though. any pictures i'd show you just wouldn't do it justice, so you'll just have to come see it.

the bittersweetness-moving :) we seriously love our apartment and the people in our building. we have so many great memories of our first two years together here...top floor apartment first year and second floor, second year. even with the stinkbugs and heat (or no heat) issues, i love the character this old house has. but even more, we love the people. ben & em on the top floor, tiny on the first, and jason, vicky and the boys. we are really so grateful for the friendship we've built with the russell's. we have loved watching the boys grow up and their family grow. we're going to miss hearing their little footsteps doing laps downstairs, watching silas ride his bike, talking with them through the window, playing outside with them in the summer, and just seeing their smiling, eager faces. i'm going to have to stop by all the time to see them. and we have learned so much from jason and vicky by their marriage and parenting. we will definitely be coming to them for parenting advice. vicky is amazing to me...even after having a crazy day with 3 boys, 3 and under, she is so joyful when we see her. we love to play games, make fun of vicky, hear the boys stories and laugh till our sides hurt with them. i don't know what i'm going to do when i'm not ten feet away to borrow something from them. i'm convinced i will still call vicky. and vicky, you can still borrow that pitcher anytime you want :) i think i'm definitely going to cry come moving day. we will miss the very close community we have here, but are grateful we are only a 3 minute car ride away.

the final weeks-please pray that everything remaining will just fall into place. pray we get an a amazing mortgage rate! pray packing up and moving goes smoothly. i don't know how it couldn't...we don't have much stuff.

please come and visit us when we are moved in! out of town people, if you ever need a place to stay, let us know! we have 3 bedrooms that will be empty for some time. we love having people over and don't mind crashers. and you can just see the house for yourselves.

we are so grateful for God's guidance in this whole process and can't wait to move into our first home!

the end.

Monday, January 5, 2009

pray

jared did a great message yesterday on prayer, in general, but also as an encouragement for the new year. this is more of a reminder for me than anyone else, but here are his points.

how should we pray?
1.pray in difficulty (this was my favorite point).
2.pray together.
3.pray the scriptures.
4.pray for revival.
5.pray expectantly.

i would encourage you to listen to it if you weren't there.
let's expect great things from God!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

we &hearts nyc

m&m had a wonderful christmas. our actual christmas day was spent with both families. matt's grandparents came in to town from iowa, so it was very good to see them, along with the tom malinaric's. and we've been able to spend some more time with them this week. and then we had the annual two hour opening of presents at my parents. highlight was rick's airzooka. and i must report matt did a fantastic job buying me unpractical presents this year and picked some winners. with some thanks going to traci, but i am very proud of him. so, all around, a very enjoyable christmas. i love the holidays and was really able to enjoy them this year. matt isn't as in love with them as i am, but he really tried this year and it made them more enjoyable for the both of us, i think.

so, the day or weekend after christmas, my family is trying to do an annual nyc trip. we went a few years ago when matt and i were first courting. we've been unable to go the last few years, but trying to pick it back up. unfortunately, kel and corey were unable to come with us. but, it was a beautiful busy nyc day. here are a few photos-

this one really cracks me up, because when we went to london, traci was very serious about her map. three years later, she still is.

walking down fifth avenue.

rick and the empire state building.

this was something at the library that enamored matt. he was trying to figure out what it was.

this was right after some guy asked if i wanted him to take the picture so i could be in it...he was super shady.

mom and dad wanted their picture with santa.

just us.

rick and t dancing in bryant park.

mom and dad also wanted their picture in front of the tree.

traci and i really heart anthropologie...especially this one.

brother and sister in front of the plaza.

as you can see, we had much fun. we are debating if we are going to allow babies or not next year...

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

this...


makes me really happy.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

someday

i told matt that someday he is going my buy me a designer bag. it's just gonna happen :) but, i got an invite a few weeks ago for shop it to me. it's an online personal shopper sort of thing where you choose specifically what designers or shops, clothes, accesories, etc, that you want them to look for, for you. and then they'll send you an email every week with their findings. i probably will never buy anything from there, but it's fun to see what they come up with. i would be ok with this...


or this...


or hey, even this...


oh, love!! they are all marc jacobs bags, which are some of my favorites. it allows me to dream until i get that designer bag...someday :)

Monday, December 8, 2008

'chicka flicka'


hannah from jehnavy did a post awhile back on her favorite chick flicks. this inspired me to do my own essentials list.

-roman holiday. one of my favorite movies of all time. audrey hepburn+gregory peck=bliss.
-pride and prejudice. and really any jane austen.
-can't buy me love & girls just wanna have fun. two 80's classics.
-sleepless in seattle & you've got mail. tom hanks and meg ryan are quite the pair. you've got mail is my favorite movie to watch when i'm sick.
-that touch of mink. i'm a sucker for cary grant.
-the holiday. now i know some people didn't like it, but jack black was so stinkin cute.
-hello dolly. one of my favorite musicals. this is a prater girl favorite. horace vandigelder...
-some like it hot. too funny.
-an affair to remember. i didn't always like this one, but have grown to appreciate it. now there's a tear jerker!
-say anything. in your eyes...
-while you were sleeping. john wayne was tall.
-a walk to remember. i love when he takes her to be in two places at once.
-one fine day. i really like this one for some reason.

so, there are some faves. what are yours?

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

i'm it.

i was tagged by sarah a little while ago. here's the dealio...

-Go to your sixth picture folder then pick your sixth picture.
-Pray that you remember the details.
-Post it on your blog.
-Tag 5 others, leave a comment to let them know they’ve been tagged.

this is mine.


last december when we went to london with the greenslades! this was our first official day in london (we went to belgium the day after we got there). so, this would be our third day of our trip, i think. we walked around a lot this particular day. towards the end of it we walked to tower bridge where i got this photo. funny thing...there are actually 3 greenslades in this photo. the day after we got back home, isaac and sarah found out they were expecting! and now almost a year later, this is aaron :)


but, oh how we miss london. belgium is really where the food's at though. i bet aaron is going to be a big potato eater cause of those belgium fries.

i tag ange, sharpie, traci, jehnavy, and sarah g.